Everyone wants to be a better lover. For many, especially men, inability to offer one's partner a lasting sexual experience is a source of concern and even stress.
However avoiding premature ejaculation in men and lack of sexual stamina in either partner can be easy with the right set of bedroom techniques and lifestyle changes. Here are some steps to help boost your bedroom game and ensure satisfaction for both you and your partner.
Take it slow. Sex doesn't have to be fast and
furious. Keep your movements slow and steady and let stimulation build
gradually. Instead of being forceful, tease and titillate your partner
by holding back and varying the angle, speed and deepness of
penetration. When both partners are ready you can speed up together for
an explosive finish.
- One variation of this is called the "7 and 9" technique: keep yourself (and potentially your partner) stimulated without going over the edge of climax by alternating between seven fast strokes and nine slow strokes.
Change it up. One of the best ways to keep your
energy up, prevent cramps and avoid premature ejaculation is to change
positions, speeds and acts more frequently. When you feel yourself
approaching orgasm, switch to a new position or stop to give your
partner some manual or oral pleasure. Along with helping you last
longer, this will give you a more interesting and varied sexual
experience.
Take breaks. If you feel yourself getting too close
to climax, or just running out of steam, just stop for a few minutes.
You can use this time to enjoy foreplay, talk dirty, or switch to
stimulating your partner manually or orally. When you've had a chance to
cool down, dive back in for another round of intercourse.
Focus on foreplay. Penetrative intercourse isn't the
be-all and end-all of sex. You can give your partner a longer experience
by taking the time to have great foreplay. Kissing, touching, pillow
talk, and the use of toys or restraints can all make for awesome,
memorable sex. Give your partner a lot oral and manual stimulation to
get them ahead of you—or even get them to climax one or more times
before penetration. If you make the most of several or all of the
activities in your sexual toolbox, a few minutes of intercourse may be
all either partner needs—or wants—to be satisfied.
Use thicker protection. While some argue that there
is little noticeable difference between different condoms, many men and
women swear using thicker condoms can reduce sensitivity and let them
hold off orgasm longer. Using lube in conjunction with a condom has also
been shown to help men last longer.
Try a desensitizing cream. Many sex stores and sexual
health retailers sell creams that can be applied to the penis to numb
sensations during sex, thus allowing men to hold off their climax
longer. Of course stopping to put on a chemical cream isn't the sexiest
thing you can do in bed, so this method may be best saved for
comfortable and committed sexual relationships.
- Look for a cream that absorbs into your skin to prevent numbing your partner as well.
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