Sex During Pregnancy Is Possible. Here's How It Is Done

So many ladies don't have sex while they are pregnant because they feel they might loose the pregnancy during sexual intercourse. If you are one of those ladies, then this article is for you.

Choose a position that makes it easier for both of you. If you and your partner are interested in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship during pregnancy, then you must be wondering what positions will work best for you as your belly grows and expands. The best thing you can do during your pregnancy is keep an open mind and be creative. You'll probably need to try out different positions and experiment a bit to find something that works for both of you.

• Most women will find that it is uncomfortable to enjoy sex in a missionary position after about the first or mid second trimester, once the stomach starts getting big. Try being the one on top instead.
• Many find that having intercourse in a "spooning" position is a very comfortable way to have sex while pregnant.
• Try sitting on a chair or on the edge of the bed while your partner kneels or stands.
• Getting on your hands and knees while your partner enters from behind is another position that works for many.

Use lots of pillows. Pillows are your friend when it comes to having sex while pregnant. Use them under your bottom or other parts of your body to prop yourself and get more comfortable. If one position doesn't seem to be working out, try modifying it by using pillows to achieve a better angle.

Try alternative forms of sex. Mutual masturbation can be a satisfying and low-key alternative to vaginal intercourse, and many women find it more comfortable in the later stages of pregnancy. Others find that oral sex is a good alternative to vaginal intercourse, since it requires less movement on the part of the pregnant woman.

• During oral sex, make sure your partner does not blow air into the vagina; in rare cases, this could cause an air embolism to form and potentially harm the baby.
• If your partner has oral herpes, a dental dam should be used during oral sex.
• Anal sex is not recommended during pregnancy, as it can lead to an infection that could spread to the vagina.

Go easy on yourself. If sex just doesn't feel good during pregnancy, there's no need to push yourself to do it. Some women find it uncomfortable to have sex during pregnancy, and others experience a reduced sex drive. Do what feels right for you, and make sure you communicate your needs to your partner.

TIPS

The best way you can ensure that you and your partner remain close during your pregnancy is to check in with your partner on occasion. Inform them of your needs, let them know where you are coming from and what you need or want from them.

WARNINGS

Avoid sex during pregnancy if your doctor advises against it.